AUGUST 5 -
SEPTEMBER 14, 2015
MAMANUCA ISLANDS
AND SOUTHERN YASAWA GROUP, FIJI
We have been enjoying Fiji for a month now, and the most exciting part of our time here so far has been that we were able to spend it with two very special people in our lives. Our son, Jonathan, flew into Nadi with us on August 5th and stayed for a few weeks. Just after he returned home, we were joined by our very dear friend, Christina, who also sailed with us for a few weeks. There is nothing like being able to share this time in our lives with them...it has been very memorable for all of us...surreal, beautiful, relaxing, sometimes challenging and extremely fun!
So much has
happened in the past month, and I honestly feel somewhat overwhelmed (and
rusty) as I try to organize my thoughts and begin to type this post! I have
decided to separate it into segments of experiences so I can focus on one thing
at a time. Sooo...here it goes!
OVERCOMING
ADVERSITY, A BIT OF DRAMA AND A LOT OF LUCK
I have never really
believed in luck, but I am rapidly warming to the idea that it truly does
exist. On our first day of sailing we had a setback. The outcome is nothing
more than being lucky...REALLY LUCKY. As you read this, do not worry...everyone
is fine! Here is what happened...
We had left Vuda
Marina and were sailing towards Mana Island. Jonathan was relaxing and I was
standing in the galley. Ironically, I was looking out of the hatch facing the
bow of the boat when I saw Theo fall past it. I did not know where he had fallen
from, but was imagining the worst. Sure enough, he had climbed up on the mast
(without telling anyone), lost his grip and fell. When I reached him he was stunned, but on his
feet. I believe in luck now, because this was nearly a tragic event. My husband
could have been seriously injured, but instead he just broke his left pinky
finger! Lucky, lucky, lucky...
The remainder of
Jonathan's time with us was very relaxing and we did not have any more bad
surprises. We visited beautiful anchorages, had fun snorkeling and ate great
meals. That all changed when Christina was supposed to arrive. What we
experienced next was a true test of character for us. As you read this, again,
do not worry...everyone is fine! Here is what happened...
Let me preface by
explaining that Christina had been looking forward to meeting us in Fiji for a
year and had used every day of her vacation time from work to make this trip
happen. That being said...she called me from the airport to tell me that her
flight from Monterey to Los Angeles had been cancelled. She could not get to
LAX in time to catch the Fiji Airways flight that would ultimately bring her to
us. This was frustrating news. She spent the next four hours trying to fix the
situation. She almost lost her Fiji ticket as a no show, but in the end it got
resolved. She flew out the next day, arriving at Nadi airport one day later
than originally planned. Phew! No harm done...a bumpy start, but we were still
good!
Did I mention that
Christina suffers terribly from motion sickness? A few years ago when we still
had Et Voila in San Pedro at the Cabrillo Way Marina in California, she came to
visit and we spent the night on the boat. She could barely go below deck to use
the head, slept outside, and in the morning she was sitting out on the dock
(yes, we were docked in the marina the entire time)! Needless to say, Theo and
I were very concerned when she told us her intention of sailing with us in Fiji. She
simply waved away our concerns stating that she would find a way to get over it
and all would be just fine.
When Christina
finally arrived at the Port Denarau Marina where we had our boat anchored in
Fiji, she had already taken a Bonine capsule, was wearing a Scopolamine Patch,
AND had on two wristbands to control motion sickness. To top it all off, she
enjoyed two fancy Fijian cocktails complete with umbrellas and fruit during
lunch to celebrate her arrival. After lunch, we went into town to buy
provisions for the next few weeks on the boat. By the time we got to the fresh
vegetable market, Christina could barely put one foot in front of the other! She needed to
lie down right away! In conclusion to the motion sickness situation, I can tell
you that during her two week sailing adventure on Et Voila, she never got sea
sick and slept like a bear during winter hibernation. Those Scopolamine Patches
do their job.
It was Christina's
first morning waking up in Port Denarau (she slept outside in the cockpit) and
we were going to leave right after coffee for our first anchorage in the
Mamanuca Islands. I was still in bed and could hear her chatting happily with
Theo in the galley as she used the microwave to heat up her oatmeal. Suddenly,
I heard a loud, fast clicking noise coming from underneath our mattress. I did
not understand what was happening, but my instinct told me that it was not
good. The microwave suddenly stopped and so did the clicking noise. It was VERY
quiet...too quiet actually. Next, I heard Theo at the control panel trying to
get our power back on. No luck that time! In a matter of minutes, he was
telling Christina and I that our main battery charger/inverter (which was
located under our bed) was no longer working. I should also add that Theo had
problems with the engine alternators. They were not charging our house
batteries. In addition, our solar panels cannot keep up, especially on cloudy
days. Without being able to charge the house batteries, we could not leave. He
would have to order the replacement part and it would take weeks before it
arrived in Port Denarau. He said "We are dead in the water...we cannot go
anywhere." Theo would not say something like that unless he was absolutely
sure...a very disturbing conclusion.
My stomach was
twisted in knots and I could not wrap my head around the idea that we could not
take Christina to all of the gorgeous places we had visited with Jonathan. Yes, we
were in Fiji, and in the end we could have gone to a resort somewhere and
enjoyed our time together all the same, but being on the boat and having the
experience of being at anchor in Fiji's amazing water is a feeling that is
unattainable anywhere else. Living on our boat in Fiji is what it is all
about...that is why we are here after all!
I refused to panic.
Maybe I was in denial the entire time? Even when Christina and I were sitting
at Lulu's Cafe scouring the internet for a resort we could stay at for two
weeks with last minute notice? I kept telling her that Theo could fix anything
and that he would figure out a solution to our problem. There HAD to be a way.
The situation was sickening and unacceptable. We intentionally stayed on shore
most of the day so Theo could have space and quiet time to think. He didn't
need us there asking questions and disrupting his focus. In my opinion, as long
as he continued brainstorming there was hope. Sure enough, he eventually found
a way...
My husband is
amazing. Whenever I tell him how amazing and smart he is, he just looks down at
his feet and shakes his head. He is so humble, but I want to tell everyone that
he can fix anything and is a genius!!! As I mentioned, the boat also had a
problem with the alternators, which Theo had postponed fixing until November in
New Zealand. We were using the generator with inverter/charger and solar panels
to charge our batteries. Now, two of our charging sources were lost. Since he
did not have the parts to fix the inverter/charger, Theo concentrated on
figuring out the alternator problem and he found a solution. Of course, it was
all much more complicated than how I am explaining it, but in the end, we could
charge our batteries and sail away. That close call made us even more
appreciative of where we were... I think we cherished Fiji, Et Voila and our
moments together even more because of it.
LESSONS:
- Use of the
Scopolamine Patch may result in a withdrawal syndrome after it's removal. These
include dizziness, nausea and headache. In other words...you will feel like crap for a while.
-Do not postpone
fixing things because in boating Murphy's Law applies
-Do not
despair...Theo will fix it!
QUOTES:
"Challenges
are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life
meaningful." - Joshua J. Marine
"Lead me,
follow me, or get out of my way." - General George Patton
FIJIAN WORD:
Kalougata - Lucky
We feasted on Indian cuisine in Nadi with our taxi driver and friend Vino |
The Hindu Temple in Nadi |
It is so wonderful to see old friends...dinner with Phil and Sara from S/V Lochmarin in Port Denarau |
Getting ready for spear fishing |
Our friends from S/V Exodus...Deanne and Tim on board Et Voila |
Jonathan exploring an uninhabited island |
Theo is always on the hunt for green drinking coconuts |
What did that coconut ever do to him? |
Captain Theo at the helm |
WAHOO, TUNA AND
CRABS...OH MY!!!
Theo had replaced our stolen fishing poles and
reels with another pair from home and the prospect of catching our own food was
exciting. While sailing between islands we usually had two lines in the water.
On the way to Waya Island, Jonathan reeled in a gorgeous Barraccuda. Once
anchored outside the local village, we decided to give them the fish, along
with some kava, candy and clothes for the children. They seemed to like
everything we gave them, but Jonathan's fish was their favorite. Our son also managed to reel in a stunning
Wahoo. Fresh Wahoo steaks are a special treat and my personal favorite. The
most entertaining part of catching a fish with Theo and Jonathan is their
bickering back and forth trying to guess what kind of fish was on the line as it
was being reeled in. Jonathan was always right!
We are not skilled
fishermen by any means and this next story will confirm that. It was a calm,
sunny day and we were sailing to a beautiful anchorage at Nanuya Island.
Christina and I were relaxing on the bow of the boat and Theo was up on the
flying bridge listening to his favorite music playlist...very loudly. We were
nearing the pass to Nanuya, so Theo went to pull in the fishing lines as he
customarily does before reaching an anchorage. Suddenly he said "Oh, we
have a fish!" Apparently, we had the music volume up so loud on the flying
bridge, that none of us heard any noise when we hooked it. The reel was
completely spooled of all the line and we had been dragging the poor fish for
who knows how long. It is surprising that a shark didn't come along and take it
from us. When it was finally on board,
we were incredulous to see a 20 pound Yellowfin Tuna... there is that
luck again!!
On another day,
while riding the dinghy back to Et Voila with Christina, Theo noticed a young Fijian man with bundles of something on his kayak. We had noticed him the day
before digging waist-deep in the mud.
When we stopped him and asked what he had, he gave us a big smile and held up a
crab with it's large claws wrapped in string. What he was showing us was a
local delicacy...Fijian Mud Crabs! Their name may not make them sound
delicious, but they are. He was very happy to sell us five of his fresh catch,
and we were happy to enjoy them for dinner!
RECIPE - MUD
CRAB ALIO E OLIO PASTA
-Fusilli Pasta
-Mud Crabs,
scrubbed, washed and shelled
-Fresh mushrooms or
eggplant
-Chopped onion
-Minced garlic
-Red pepper to
taste
-Olive Oil and a
pat of butter
Saute the garlic,
onion and mushrooms in olive oil. Once softened, add the remainder of the
ingredients to the pan and cook through. Mix with the hot pasta...devour
immediately!
LESSONS:
- Fijians use every
part of a fish. The head is especially of great importance and they will always
ask you for it. Even the spine, bones and skin (parts that we normally throw
away) are used to make soup and will feed a family.
- Turn down the
music volume.
QUOTE:
"Without
music, life is a journey through a desert." - Pat Conroy
FIJIAN WORDS:
Wanisiwa - Fishing
line
Maleka - Delicious
Bringing in the Tuna |
Et Voila! |
Christina was ready to dig into our very special tuna sashimi lunch |
Mud crabs ready to be shelled for our pasta sauce |
Inspecting a new creation from the galley...I think it was a fish fritter. |
BIG TOM,THE CELL
PHONE AND A PIG NAMED DAVE
One of our
anchorages while we were sailing with Jonathan was at Waya Island by the
Nalauwaki Village. When a boat anchors
in front of a village, it is customary
for everyone on board to go to shore and introduce themselves as soon as
possible. We were expecting to use their backyard as a home for a few nights,
so asking permission to stay is the polite thing to do. The three of us jumped
in the dinghy with our offerings of a beautiful barracuda we had just caught, a
bundle of kava, clothes and candy.
We were trying to
navigate around the coral towards shore when we were approached by a young man
on a paddle board. He gave us three papayas and then extended his hand eagerly
for our fish. He said his name was Tom and his grandfather, also named Tom, was
one of the elders in the village. He told us to follow close behind him so he
could lead us to the beach without hitting anything. We were grateful.
Once on shore, the
elder Tom (Big Tom) was there to greet us and thanked us for the fish. We
presented him with the bundle of kava, kids' clothes and the candy. The kids
swarmed around him when they saw the sweets, but Big Tom took control of the
situation very quickly. He had them line up single file, and one by one, he
gave them some candy to enjoy. Afterwards, he motioned us to follow him to the
chief's house where we sat on the floor for a brief Sevusevu ceremony. Once the
ceremony was completed and it was understood that we were accepted into the
village, Big Tom gave us a tour. At one point I noticed a large, white pig
running loose between the houses. The
pig's name was Dave, and after Big Tom fed him some candy, he did a few tricks
for us. Whenever someone would scratch his belly he would roll over...clever
pig.
We sat on the beach
for a little while and spoke with Big Tom. I asked him about the cyclones in
Fiji and if the villagers worried about them. He told me they never worry about
that because Sunday and Tuesday are days of prayer and on those days they ask
God to protect them from any extreme weather. He explained with rock solid
faith that their prayers would always be answered...so, no worries and no
cyclones. Amazing... Before we returned to Et Voila for dinner, Theo asked Big
Tom if he needed anything from the main island. We told him that we would be
returning to visit him in a couple of weeks and would be happy to bring some
things back. He was thoughtful for a few seconds, and then told us he would
give us a list before we sailed away.
When Jonathan, Theo
and I returned to the village to say goodbye, Tom gave us a piece of paper with
his requests from the main island. Jonathan and Theo read it while I was taking
pictures of the children wearing the clothes we had brought them. I noticed
they kept looking at the list, but didn't say anything. Jonathan folded the
paper and put it in his pocket. I suggested he might want to give it to me so
that we didn't misplace it, but he just pointed at his head and said
"Don't worry mom, I've got it memorized." To make a short story even
shorter, Big Tom asked us to bring him a cell phone (Digicel touch screen) and
a CCC brand backpack. We were stunned and a bit confused to say the least. We
assumed he would ask for things like food, a cooking pot or some items for the
school...but a touch screen cell phone? We did not see that one coming.
The request for a
cell phone was presumptuous, but it still became a conundrum for us. We
certainly wanted to help Tom and his village, but we also didn't want to be
Santa Claus and have them expect expensive gifts every time a cruiser
approached their village. If we gave him the cell phone, we would be setting
the bar very high for future visitors. We have been in Fiji for a while and we
know that it is frowned upon when cruisers offer luxurious gifts to the
villages. It actually disrupts their way of life and causes problems between
them. So, in the end, we brought Big Tom the backpack and gave a donation to
the kindergarten, but no cell phone. He was extremely grateful and never
mentioned the phone to us again. Live and learn...
LESSON:
- Be careful about
what you offer.
- Pigs love candy.
QUOTE:
"You can't
change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying about the
future." -
Anonymous
FIJIAN WORDS:
Turaga - Chief
Kerekere - To ask a
favor
Talevoni -
Telephone
Sa dina! - Really!
Jonathan giving "Little Tom" the Barracuda |
"Big Tom" passing out candy to the children |
Dave the pig before eating candy |
Dave the pig after eating candy |
"Little Tom" guiding us to the Octopus Resort which is on the other side of the island |
The children of Nalauwaki Village modeling clothes that were donated to them by the Caring Eagles at the Carden Conservatory School...Vinaka! |
One year old baby Bulo and her mother Esta |
A free spirited young man from Nalauwaki Kindergarten |
After a tour of the school, the village offered us kava and preformed a dance show called a "Meke" |
I was sitting inside the schoolhouse when I saw these children trying to peek inside...I couldn't resist taking a photo of their fabulous hair!! |
SUNSETS, SMILES AND
WEATHER WINDOWS
Theo and I love
Fiji. The water here is the most brilliant color of blue that you can imagine
and we always stop what we are doing to watch the sun go down at the end of a
day. Never missing a sunset is a wonderful way to live if you ask me. The
Fijian people add to the beauty and uniqueness of this place. They are tranquil
and happy people who don't appear to have any worries. They are helpful, easy
to smile and have a contagious high pitched laugh. This is why some cruisers
choose to return to Fiji for many sailing seasons year after year. We are not
in a rush to leave this part of the world. It took us a very long time to get
here and there is so much more to see and do.
As I write this
post, Theo and I are in Port Denarau waiting for one more boat part to arrive
from Australia. We are also waiting for a good weather window to sail to the
Southern Lau Islands. This is a chain of 60 islands and only half are
inhabited. It is a remote area of Fiji that most tourists do not see and it is
special for that reason. Fulaga is a cresent shaped reef-limestone island and
it has a stunning lagoon for anchorage. Our plan is to sail there and stay for
about one month so we can live with the families and experience their culture.
Theo and I are doing our best to be patient, but what we really want to do is
pull up our anchor and begin the voyage East. Oh well, patience is a virtue!
QUOTE:
"There are no
shortcuts to any place worth going." - Beverly Sills
"Map out your
future, but do it in pencil." - Jon Bon Jovi
FIJIAN WORDS:
Totoka - Beautiful
Yanuyanu - Island
A sunset by the Coconut Bar at the Octopus Resort |
Et Voila anchored at Waya Island |
Theo nursing his little finger |
Christina took this stunning photo...that is Theo anchoring our dinghy on the beach at Waya Island |
Ready to jump into the clear, blue water |
Theo's favorite beer...Fiji Bitter |
We were so grateful to have two weeks in Fiji together..so many beautiful memories |
Enjoying dinner on board S/V Field Trip with Mark and Sarah |
One of the highlights of our trip...swimming with Manta Rays in Naviti Island. |
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